Summer days are fast-approaching! Here are a few recommendations for summer reading. Check out the websites of these authors as well.
All parents have aspirations for their children. But
often these turn into crushing expectations that cause real harm and
disillusionment at the most important time in a child’s development. Parenting
should not be a competition with winners and losers. Parents need to recognize
their children for who they actually are, and in her groundbreaking new book,
Dr. Shefali Tsabary challenges the modern myths of parenting that define how a
child is “supposed to be.” Instead of holding our children to society’s impossible
ideals, Dr. Shefali teaches us how to control our expectations, embrace the
present moment, and let go of the anxiety surrounding how best to parent our
children. Written in the style of her New
York Times bestseller, The
Conscious Parent, The
Awakened Family draws from Eastern philosophy as well as
Western psychology to offer enlightened advice and a clear program for raising
confident, conscious children who are true to themselves.
Susan Cain sparked a
worldwide conversation when she published Quiet: The Power of Introverts in a World That Can’t Stop Talking. With her
inspiring book, she permanently changed the way we see introverts and the way
introverts see themselves.The original book focused on the workplace, and Susan realized that a version for and about kids was also badly needed. This book is all about kids' world—school, extracurriculars, family life, and friendship. You’ll read about actual kids who have tackled the challenges of not being extroverted and who have made a mark in their own quiet way. You’ll hear Susan Cain’s own story, and you’ll be able to make use of the tips at the end of each chapter. There’s even a guide at the end of the book for parents and teachers.
From http://www.jessicalahey.com
Modern parenting is defined by an unprecedented level of overprotectiveness: parents who rush to school at the whim of a phone call to deliver forgotten assignments, who challenge teachers on report card disappointments, mastermind children’s friendships, and interfere on the playing field. As teacher and writer Jessica Lahey explains, even though these parents see themselves as being highly responsive to their children’s well being, they aren’t giving them the chance to experience failure—or the opportunity to learn to solve their own problems.
Overparenting has the potential to ruin a child’s confidence and undermine their education, Lahey reminds us. Teachers don’t just teach reading, writing, and arithmetic. They teach responsibility, organization, manners, restraint, and foresight—important life skills children carry with them long after they leave the classroom.
Providing a path toward solutions, Lahey lays out a blueprint with targeted advice for handling homework, report cards, social dynamics, and sports. Most importantly, she sets forth a plan to help parents learn to step back and embrace their children’s failures. Hard-hitting yet warm and wise, The Gift of Failure is essential reading for parents, educators, and psychologists nationwide who want to help children succeed.
